take back your life

others have. you can, too.

01. THE JOURNEY.

You are not alone.

Up to 20% have regrets about their sex change. Sex change procedures are not effective, say researchers. Ten to 15 years after surgical reassignment, the suicide rate is 20 times that of comparable peers.

Here we reach out to those considering detransitioning.

Hormones, surgery, regret:
I was a transgender woman for 8 years

My name is Walt Heyer and in April of 1983 I had gender reassignment surgery. At first I was giddy for the fresh start. But hormones and sex change genital surgery couldn’t solve the underlying issues driving my gender dysphoria.

I detransitioned more than 25 years ago. I learned the truth: Hormones and surgery may alter appearances, but nothing changes the immutable fact of your sex.

I met a wonderful woman who didn’t care about the changes to my body, and we’ve been married for over 20 years. Now we help others whose lives have been derailed by sex change.

02. other voices of experience.

“I want my sex back.”

A documentary by RT.

Walt Heyer’s story told in 2 minutes…

More voices

03. THE evidence and research.

Gender Ideology Run Amok

Imprimis, June/July 2021 • Volume 50, Number 6/7 By Abigail Shrier (Author, Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters) The following is adapted from a speech delivered on April 27, 2021, in Franklin, Tennessee, at a Hillsdale College National...

Sweden’s Karolinska Ends All Use of Puberty Blockers and Cross-Sex Hormones for Minors Outside of Clinical Studies

Concerns over medical harm and uncertain benefits result in a major policy shift May 5, 2021, reprinted from https://segm.org/sweden_ends_use_of_dutch_protocol The Karolinska Hospital in Sweden recently issued a new policy statement regarding treatment of...

Society for Evidence Based Gender Medicine

Who is SEGM? We are an international group of over 100 clinicians and researchers concerned about the lack of quality evidence for the use of hormonal and surgical interventions as first-line treatment for young people with gender dysphoria. We represent expertise...

Make an authentic life your Priority.

Get psychological help

So many people who change genders realize later that abuse in their lives contributed to their gender distress feelings. Changing genders is not the proper treatment for overcoming childhood trauma or abuse. Find someone who will address the underlying source of your distress without prescribing hormones or surgery. Avoid those who are “transgender cheerleaders” and advocate for transition.

The law is on your side

Employment law protects you as you transition back. Legal identity documents can be changed back.

You may find that when you reach out to the legal resources that helped you originally transition they are not willing to help you go back. No worries. We can help you find legal resources if you need some.